bed hoppers - swinging in the UK

bh219: Secret Stag & Secret Vixen Return

In this episode we invite sexy friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen behind the mic once more and catch up on what they've been up to over the last year. They talk about adventures in hot wifing, a trip to a hotwife takeover event in the states, answer our questions and share some of their sexiest moments. We cover how they're going in their lifestyle journey and look to what 2026 might mean for them. 

It's a handy episode if you've been following them, are interested in hotwifing and hot wife events and if you're up for a cheeky little conversation. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh218: 2025 and solo party prep

In this episode we talk about 2025 and explore some of our highs and lows for the year. We talk a little about the future and what the coming year might look like for our adventures. We chat about some forthcoming solo dates and our plans for how they might work. Mr H is getting ready to go to a party - so we talk about boundaries, possible situations and how to keep Mrs H involved. It's a handy one if you're exploring solo adventures, thinking about how your year has been and what you might get up to in 2026. If you've got awesome plans - reach out and let us know about them!

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bh217: the video side quest

Thanks for checking us out! In this delightful episode we follow up on Mrs H's side quest, which we spoke about in the previous podcast. Essentially, she was challenged to film some naughty content and send it to Mr H whilst he was on his solo date. Did she film it? Did she send it? Was it sexy? For the answers to this and more, take a lovely listen to this show!

We cover how we're feeling about pictures and videos, if that's changed following the side quest and what we might do in the future. Might be a handy discussion starter if you're talking about solo dates, filming content and what to do with pics and clips. 

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bh216: sex pics & videotape

Ahhhh swingers and posting pictures. Have you ever joined a swinging site and recoiled in horror at some of the pictures posted? Perhaps you feel like you could never compete? Or maybe you constantly share pictures and videos every three and a half minutes? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you are prob'ly human! Congratulations! We talk about all things posting pics and vids. We cover what we like, what doesn't work for us and how things have changed. Mrs H accepts a challenge and we share our thoughts on why we do what we do when it comes to spicy images. Hopefully there's plenty of food for thought!

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PS - Mrs H chose the music on this one. So if you like it, let us know. And if it's not working for you, let us know that too!

 

bh215: catching up with Mr and Ms J

This episode features delightful guests Mr and Ms J - who talk about their journey into the swinging lifestyle. We cover a whole host of things from dealing with anxiety, diving straight into clubs, what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin and what challenges children might bring into their adventures. Mr and Mrs H also have a bit of a chat about getting videos and pictures - it's only the start of that conversation but we'd love to know your thoughts. Bob us an email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com 

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Handy links and info

In the episode Mr H talks about a book that someone recommended. This is the book: 'When I say "NO", I feel Guilty' by Manuel J. Smith. It's on Spotify as a free audiobook, if you have a premium account. As is The Ethical Slut - which we'd highly recommend.

 

bh214: back on track

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast. In this episode we talk about our last week or two and how it feels like we’re turning a corner. From awesome threesomes to sexy solo dates and steps in the right direction on meds, it has certainly been a delightful period!

We bring you up to date on our latest escapades, talk about our solo adventures, recount some sexy moments and celebrate how things are on the right track. It might not all be perfect, but it’s lovely to share a slice of the good stuff that’s been going on.

We explore the thrill of solo dates, what’s driving our exploration and talk about how they feature as part of our pic n mix approach to the swinging lifestyle.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh213: single and bi with Sam

This episode starts with an update from us, we check in on Mrs H's menopause progress, chat about the Thrifty shades of grey event and touch on some of our recent adventures.

 

Our main feature is an interview with Sam, an energetic single man in his early 40s, who describes himself as bisexual and "ADHD as hell". Sam is navigating the lifestyle after a 16-year vanilla relationship, exploring experiences while seeking companionship. He talks about some of the challenges, his advice for newcomers and how he'd bring up the lifestyle conversation with a new partner. He's a delightful guest with plenty of stories to share.

 

If you want to reach out to Sam, drop us a message at the usual email address. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

 

 

bh212: new dynamics with Bunny and A

We invite two lovely ladies, Bunny and A, to join us for a chat exploring their journey, swinging lifestyle experiences and what they'd throw into room 101. They talk about their new relationship, how it came about and what it means for them and A's partner. We touch on our recent social event, announce a new one and they fire a question or two at us. It's a fabulous interview, digging into new relationships, exploring new dynamics and finding out more about hot husbanding too. 

If you're interested in our Thrifty Shades of Grey event in December, do get in touch in the regular places. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh211: a chat with Jess

In this episode we speak to Jess, who shares her personal journey and insights into the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle. Jess, describing herself as a "9-year-old who has been to a lot of therapy", recounts entering the scene through polyamory after university and later discovering swinging post-lockdown.

She identifies as solo poly, preferring to engage in swinging independently, shaped by her own desires and boundaries. Jess emphasises the importance of "doing the work" to unlearn monogamous norms, reframing jealousy, and establishing clear boundaries, particularly not dating monogamous individuals or poly people with negative views on swinging. She covers body image issues and overcoming a hierarchy in the swinging community that sometimes invalidates single participants.

Check out this podcast now for a delightful stroll through Jess's experiences and the usual questions!

 

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bh210: Open House - the good, the bad and the ugly

In this episode we bring you up to date on what's being going on in our lives. From poorly pets, to great lifestyle success, solo dates, all the way through to HRT - we give you a behind the scenes look at life with the bed hoppers. Find out if Mrs H picked up on some recent sexy hints!
We move on to talk about Channel 4's Open House programme. We talk about what worked for us in season three, what could have been better and why we occasionally yelled at the TV. We add some listener views about the show too and talk a bit about our time on television. We'd love your views on Open House - so do reach out if you'd like to share them.

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bh209: Gav in the spotlight

In this episode we chat to single fella Gav. He talks about his journey, how he's started exploring his bi side and some of the challenges you might face as a single gentleman exploring the swinging lifestyle. We cover advice for newbies, what Gav would put in the lifestyle bin and if we've ever deleted one of our podcast recordings. It's fun romp through one man's journey from newbie to experienced swinger.

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Handy info

Look out for Gav on Fabswingers and other sites at gavla7799.

bh208: a little more on Cap d'Agde

In this episode (part two of two) we talk about our final few days in Cap d'Agde and our experience as part of the Spicy Match and Libertine event. We cover the foam party, Le Glamour and our overall experience in the French naturist village. We pick up where we left off on the question 'are we shit swingers?' and try to figure out what's changed and why. As ever, we'd love your thoughts - so please reach out to bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. 

This one is perfect if you're looking to explore Cap d'Agde, thinking about attending events or if you're wondering about your style and approach to swinging. 

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bh207: swinging in Cap d'Agde (part one)

In this episode we talk about our trip to the South of France, visiting the naturist village of Cap d'Agde. 

This one is a two parter - with more to follow, but we do explore the first half of our week. We talk about about some of the clubs, events and what we got from our Spicy Match trip. From poolside orgies to cold sores - this one covers a lot of ground! Mr H takes time out to reflect on 'if we are good swingers?' and we talk about our style. If you're heading to Cap, this one might come in handy - likewise if you're not sure if events and clubs might be for you! 

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Handy links

Want to come to our Reassembled social event in Birmingham on 6 September? 

Drop us a line at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

 

bh206: a Parisian solo adventure

In this episode we talk about Mrs H's solo adventure in Paris. Was it all Pokemon hunting or was there something a little more naughty? We explore how it all went, how we felt during the trip and talk a little bit about what Mr H got up to whilst Mrs H was away. 

Will Mrs H bring him back a croissant, will it be too hot in Paris, will Mr H have changed the theme tune again and what happens when storm stops play? Find out all of this and more in this delightful edition of the bed hoppers podcast.

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Handy links

Want to come along to our 6 September social in Birmingham? Drop us a message on Swinghub, Fabswingers, X or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com 

bh205: Ads and Chantelle

This episode features a candid conversation with delightful guests Ads and Chantelle, about their experiences in the swinging lifestyle.

They discuss how they initially entered the lifestyle through an amateur adult content blog and the subsequent evolution of their relationship, including Chantelle's discovery of her bisexuality and Ads's exploration of his own.

The couple shares insights into overcoming challenges, such as ghosting and boundary violations, and emphasise the importance of communication and building a supportive community within the lifestyle. They also touch upon their role in organising social events and offer advice to newcomers, advocating for open-mindedness and dispelling common misconceptions about swinging.

You can find Ads and Chantelle on Swinghub at MrMrsWood.

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bh204: were rules made to be broken?

In this episode we dive into a discussion about rules and boundaries. We talk about how our rules have evolved from when we first started swinging, how they’ve changed and why we’ve changed them. We explore why we have them there in the first place and if we’ve broken any rules along the way.

You might find this a useful listen if you’re about to explore ethical non monogamy and swinging - or it might be a timely reminder to have a discussion about your current rules and boundaries. Either way, we dig into the topic and have some fun along the way.

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bh203: sexy solo dates

In this episode we catch up on our solo dating experiences and explore why we've been having some separate play dates over the last few months. We cover what's to come and why we might keep this activity as part of our overall play experience. If you're looking to explore this aspect of Swinging, this one might inspire a conversation or two. And if you're just looking to be entertained, there's nothing better than Mrs H trying to tell a sexy story (we can't back that up). 

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Handy links

Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/bedhoppersuk

 

bh202: data is sexy

Did you know that data is sexy? Join our episode today and find out about a recent survey we put out about swinging and people's experiences. We make some surprising discoveries about when people started, who brought it up and what people would throw in the swinging lifestyle bin. From age ranges to play-style preferences, we excel at exploring a whole range of data (ha! spreadsheet puns - I wonder what the formula for those is?).

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Handy links

Come along to the Manchester Mixer - details here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

bh201: neurodiversity with Rich & Jo

This episode features Rich and Jo, who playfully describe each other before discussing their entry into the swinging lifestyle via online platforms and initial club experiences. A key theme is communication, which they highlight as crucial for navigating their relationship and has positively impacted their "vanilla" life. They also delve into their adult ADHD diagnoses, finding relief in understanding their behaviours, and discuss the potential link between neurodiversity and the lifestyle, including the concept of "risky sexual behaviour".

Navigating jealousy and boundaries is explored through personal anecdotes, emphasising that jealousy is normal but manageable within agreed limits. Offering advice to newcomers, they stress having an open mind and recognising the ordinary nature of people in the lifestyle. They playfully critique rigid definitions of labels and the stigma associated with their lifestyle. And their ideal date reflects their relaxed and engaging dynamic.

Thanks for listening and for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out more about Rich and Jo here: https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/tea-and-biscuits

Come along to the Manchester Mixer - details here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

 

bh200: the big 200th episode

Thanks for joining our 200th episode! Some very special guests host this one and put us (Mr and Mrs H) under the spotlight. The conversation explores the podcast's origins, our favourite episodes, and memorable guests, and touches on some of the challenges too. We explore events we've have hosted and dream events we'd host if given the chance!

Of course, we trade some playful jabs about our past misadventures. We offer some podcasting advice and future aspirations for the show. 

Thanks for hopping into our bed - here's to another 200!

Handy links

UK Swingers, calling all UK Swingers! Join us for an exclusive and unforgettable evening hosted by Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and bed hoppers Podcast. Set in an exclusive VIP suite in Manchester, this social soirée promises a tantalising blend of games, mingling, cocktails, and dazzling performances.

April 19-20, 2025 | Manchester, UK | Hosted by Libertine Events, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, and bed hoppers Podcast

Get your tickets here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

bh199: our guide to social dates

In this episode we talk about how we've had a few dates recently and offer some top tips on the topic.

We discuss our experiences with 'social dates' - exploring potential romantic connections with other couples or singles within the swinging lifestyle. We share advice on initiating contact, choosing appropriate venues, communicating effectively, and navigating the complexities of physical intimacy on a first date.

Our conversation also touches on pre-date preparations, communication methods, and dealing with post-date reflections. Finally, we offer tips for listeners on how to have successful social dates, emphasising safety, respect, and open communication.

We hope you find it useful - don't forget to send us your thoughts and top tips to bedhoppersuk@gmail.com.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Come to the Wanderhoppers Manchester Mixer on 19 April 2025 - get your tickets here: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/libertineeventsllc/1533529

bh198: Ticket2Ride

In this episode we talk to the delightful Ticket2Ride and quiz them about how they got started, what it's like identifying as a straight girl in a bi-world and how not everyone has a fantasy. We take time out to explore their journey, the ups and downs and what they'd like to throw in the lifestyle bin. We also announce a brand new event - a social in Manchester!

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Handy links

Check out our guests on SwingHub at 'Ticket2Ride' and on Fab at https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/ticket2ride

Come to the Wanderhoppers Manchester Mixer on 19 April 2025 - get your tickets here: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/libertineeventsllc/1533529

 

bh197: The New Forest Couple

In this episode we talk to the New Forest Couple - that's Andrew and Clare. We explore their journey, approach and some of the challenges they've faced along the way. Clare opens up about how and why events and meets can be a struggle and offers some great advice for anyone with a disability looking to join the lifestyle. This is an open and honest conversation that you will not want to miss.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about The New Forest Couple by heading to Swinghub and searching 'Thenewforestcouple'.

Join our Patreon and listen to episodes before anyone else by heading here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk 

Don't forget to leave us a review! iTunes would be a great place to do just that - here's a link to our show: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/bed-hoppers-swinging-in-the-uk/id1361366390

 

bh196: Pennylane and Starlord

In this episode we interview sexy friends Pennylane and Starlord. Be warned though - it's Mr H's birthday and it's possible that we've had some cocktails. We explore some of the challenges they've faced, what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin and learn how they got started in the swinging lifestyle. Join us for a really fun conversation and exploration into how this couple have navigated their experiences.

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Handy links

Find out more about Starlord and Pennylane by heading to fab at: https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/foxmia98 or heading to Swinghub and looking up pennylaneandstarlord

Check out and get tickets to our Candyland event here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

 

bh195: Shiv and Tom

In this episode we talk to Shiv and Tom - a couple who are relatively new in their journey. They talk about their experiences, how they got started, advice for folks just starting out and what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin. It's a fun little conversation - with something for everyone.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find Shiv and Tom on Swinghub by searching 'Shiv&Tom'

Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

bh194: Ruby and Cole

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast!

In this episode we kick off a brand new series of interviews. We'll be chatting to guests about their journey, their thoughts on ethical non monogamy and the highs, lows and challenges that they've faced. This week we are joined by Ruby and Cole who share how they got started, talk about their dynamic and their tips on what to do if you get locked out of your room.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

 

Handy links

Find Ruby and Cole on Swinghub by searching 'RubyandCole'

Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

 

bh193: swinger NYE survival

In this episode we explore New Years Eve (NYE) and some of our previous experiences of the night. We talk about what to expect, how to survive and tackle some of our top tips. We touch on house parties, nights at clubs, managing expectations, what to wear and more. If you're thinking of doing a swinger club on NYE (be it your first club visit or your 100th) then this might just be the episode for you! 

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

 

bh192: in the sun and man down

In this episode we take time out to explore an article that featured in the Sun. We talk about some of the reactions from the community and how we feel about it. We also share a story where Mr H faces a challenging moment and isn't performing to his normal standards. What went wrong and what have we learned since then?

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Handy links

Read the article we mention: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/31158998/gran-canaria-nude-beach-swinging-orgies-sex/

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh191: time for a question or two

In this episode we field some questions from our listeners and discord community. Questions include if we see ourselves in the lifestyle in 10 years time, would we ever leave, is there anything we'd change about our journey and who do we admire? We work out which celebs would be on our hall passes and if we've had any negative experiences that have had a lasting impact. It's a fun rambling exploration of our past, present and future. 

Thanks for hopping into our podcast!

 

Handy links

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

 

bh190: the masturbation station

In this edition of the bed hoppers podcast we talk about female masturbation and put Mrs H in the hot seat. We talk about when she started, how frequently and what it means to her. We both explore the OMGYES site and talk about our experience in trying it out. Mrs H attempts to talk us through some sexy times too.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

OMGYES: https://start.omgyes.com/join 

bh189: solo play for Mrs H

In this episode Mrs H goes on a solo date and has a sexy catch up with a lady friend. We talk about what she got up to (cue awks retelling of sexy times), what the experience was like and if she'd like to do it all again. Since it's us, not everything goes to plan - so we also talk about what went wrong and how we might do things differently. We talk about solo play in general and then a have a recording from some delightful friends covering their experiences in going Han-Solo. 

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

 

bh188: surprising challenges

In this episode we talk about some of the surprising challenges that folks might face whilst being in the swinging lifestyle. We know that things aren't always roses and rainbows, so we asked our community to send in things that shocked them once they had started swinging - and what really surprised them. From costs and cliques to reactions about bi guys and expectations around bi ladies - this one covers a whole bunch of surprising things!

Do let us know what has surprised you since you've started on your adventures. Stay tuned to the very end for a couple of clips from friends of the show too! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh187: party at Vanilla Alternative

In this episode we talk about our Neon Dreams event at Vanilla Alternative. We cover the behind the scenes gossip, the naughty times, the changes to VA and how it went for us. If you've ever wondered what a swingers takeover might be like, how VA has changed over the years or just want a nose about how our recent event went - then this is the episode for you. From lap dances and photography classes to pre-parties and walks of shame, there's something here for everyone!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

• Find out about Keri Gold here: https://www.instagram.com/keri_gold_/
• Find out about VA here: https://www.instagram.com/vanillaalternativeclub/
• Check out the Spicy Match Insta here: https://www.instagram.com/spicymatch_official/
• Email us bedhoppersuk@gmail.com to come along to our October social
• Check out our website: www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

bh186: how we started swinging

In this episode we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how our lifestyle journey began. We work through how we've changed in the eight or so years and also reflect on how the scene has changed in that time. If you've ever wondered how we got started or how things have changed in the lifestyle, then this might just be the episode for you.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

• Tickets to our NEON Dreams event are available here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/
• Email us bedhoppersuk@gmail.com to come along to our October social
• Check out our website: www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

bh185: how to rock a threesome

In this thrilling instalment we take a look at threesomes - and how we rock them (we can't actually back up that we rock them). We talk about some recent experiences, things to think about and how we've negotiated a FMF or two in the past. If you're thinking about sorting something similar, this could be just the pod for you. You might also enjoy it if you like us warbling on for a bit. This one has something for almost everyone. Prob'ly. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

 

Handy links

Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Join Spicy Match and find out about their other events here: https://www.spicymatch.com/

Want to come to our October Southampton Social? Message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh184: UK Swingers on Spicy Island

In this episode we talk about our adventure to Croatia and the Spicy Match Spicy Island. We run through what to expect, what the accommodation is like, the sort of people there, the playrooms, the food, the nights, our experiences and much, much more. From steampunk to sexy times - if you've never experienced a Spicy Match event - this is the episode for you. 

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Join Spicy Match and find out about their other events here: https://www.spicymatch.com/

Want to come to our October Southampton Social? Message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh183: a chat with our son

In this episode we put our son Morgan in the hot seat. We interview him about being the child (albeit now a grown adult) of swingers, what happened when he found out about our lifestyle, his thoughts on talking to your kids about it and what happened when we were off on adventures.

This one might be useful if you've ever thought about talking to your family about your swinging lifestyle - and understanding how your kids might react. Do get in touch if you have any questions - and thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Want to come to our October Southampton Social - message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh182: events, socials and a bi conversation

In this episode we explore what we've been up to over the last few weeks - from planning events, some lovely social meets and checking out the SSocial Club in Bournemouth. Then, since it's Pride month, we have a chat with Mrs H about her bisexuality - what it means to her and how she discovered that she was bi. 

Happy Pride everyone - and thanks for hopping into our podcast!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Want to come to our October Southampton Social - message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Find out about the SSocial Club here: https://www.instagram.com/the_ssocial_club/

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh181: solo dates for Mr and Mrs H

In this episode Mr and Mrs H both experience separate dates and solo play! On the same day! With the same person! Without completely spoiling this episode, we both have some adventures and talk about what went right, what could we have done better and how we might change things in future. From taking a swing to robots on the big screen, this one literally has it all. Oh - and it also has the conclusion to the sexy story we've been sharing. Miss that one at your peril!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh180: the greatest swinging podcast ever

In this thrilling instalment, we turn to our AI overlords to ask 'what would be the best ever swinging podcast?' We get some ideas and then jump straight online to record them! This one is like a mini-guide to swinging in 50 mins or so. Hopefully there's some fun to be had too! 

Oh - and if you liked our sexy story from last time, stick around to the end! There might be a treat just for you!

Thanks for hopping into our bed! 

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh179: an honest conversation

Welcome to the bed hopper podcast.

Over the past few months we've been talking about a shift in our dynamic. Mrs H is much more interested in women - but that's made making new connections much more complicated. So, we do what we do best and sit down and have an honest conversation about what's going on and how we might tackle it. We explore some options, talk about how we're feeling and think through our recent conversations with friends (check out the patreon for a special on that). And to top it off, there might just be a sexy story written by Mr H. 

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

 

bh178: PJ parties, socials and making the most of it

In this thrilling edition we talk about the Swinghub PJ party and find out why Mrs H had to hunt high and low for Mr H. We delve in to the Swindon Social - and touch on how we could get more from going to events and the like. We announce that we're going to SpicyIsland and talk about what that's gonna be like too.

Thanks for downloading our podcast!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

 

bh177: the black and white ball

In this episode we talk about the Black and White Ball, which we hosted with the Lovely Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. We go behind the scenes to talk about how the event went, run through what it's like being a host and also cover some of the sexy times we had during the weekend. Mrs H struggles to tell a sexy story and we delve into why that might be the case. 

Thanks for hopping into our podcast.

Handy links

Send Mrs H your phrase at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com 

Join our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk 

Check out Wanderlust Swingers here: https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder 

bh176: life updates, top tv and solo dates

In this episode we share an update on what's been going on in our lives lately. We talk about the support we've had from friends in the lifestyle and why things haven't been easy. But don't worry - it's not all doom and gloom - we quickly move onto some lifestyle adjacent TV (think Game of Keys and Couple to Throuple) and then ask Mrs H about what's happening with her solo date! 

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Handy links

Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk 

You can read about us in USA Today here: https://eu.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2024/03/07/swinging-emotions-sex-relationships/72675532007/

Find out about the SSocial Club here: https://www.instagram.com/the_ssocial_club/

 

bh175: lads, lads, lads

In this episode Mr H catches up with the marvellous Secret Stag for a chat about life, the universe and everything. From hotwifing and taking Secret vixen out on a date - all the way through to top tips for men - this one covers a wide range of random fun topics. Does Secret Stag enjoy the limelight? Will we be tempted by the one ring? How many pop culture references can we fit in one sitting? Find out all of this and more today!

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Handy links

UPDATE: We have an extremely limited amount of club only tickets left for our Black and White Ball with the Wanderlust Swingers. Get yours here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

bh174: Mrs H goes one on one with Secret Stag

After taking time out to interview the lovely Secret Vixen in our last episode, Mrs H turns the tables on Secret Stag and interviews him one on one. They delve deeper into the world of hotwifing, cuckolding and stag and vixen dynamics. They explore just what makes Secret Stag tick and what drives his desires. If you've ever thought about being a stag (or cuck) this might just be the episode for you. 

Handy links

UPDATE: We have an extremely limited amount of club only tickets left for our Black and White Ball with the Wanderlust Swingers. Get yours here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

bh173: one on one with Secret Vixen

In this episode Mrs H goes solo with Secret Vixen for some one on one time and a great conversation. They explore the world of hot wives, what makes SV tick and what she's looking for in a hot date. Mr H and Secret Stag stay out of it for the benefit of all listeners! Download now for a fabulous convo with fabulous ladies. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

 

Handy links

Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

 

bh172: from red-lines to escalations

In this episode we take to X (or Twitter, for the old school) to get some listener questions. We cover a fair few topics including our hard red-lines, how to escalate and if we've ever lost friends in the lifestyle. Don't forget, if you'd like to send us a question, hit us up at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

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Links and stuff

Special thanks to the following for submitting a question on our live stream...

https://twitter.com/Elanjay_UK

https://twitter.com/MistressVixen77

https://twitter.com/jakrox23

https://twitter.com/funcouple512

https://twitter.com/newforestcouple

If we missed you off, sorry!

Don't forget, club tickets to our B&W event with Wanderlust Swingers are still on sale. Head here to grab yours now: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

bh171: glory holes and trouser holes - NYE at Xstasia

Hoppy new year! We hope you had a great one and have started the year with a bang!

This episode is all about our New Years Eve trip to Xstasia (near Birmingham). We cover what it's like returning to the club (we were last there pre-pandemic), some of the amusing stories and a little bit of the sexy times that we had on the night. We also talk about Mr H's birthday (thanks for all of the well wishes) and some of the drama we've been dealing with since the end of December. It's a fun filled episode that we hope we keep those January blues well away! 

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Handy links

FYI - our Southampton Social for January is now sold out - as are hotel tickets for the B&W Ball with Wanderlust Swingers.

Get club only tickets to the B&W Ball here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Check out our website here: www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

Find out more about Xstasia here: https://www.xtasia.co.uk/ 

bh170: a solo play date

In this episode we follow up on our chat about separate dating - and Mr H goes on a solo play adventure. We talk about how this came about, what happened, how we're feeling and what it might mean for the future. Mrs H reveals what she got up to - and Mr H gives the deets of his sexy story. Would we do it again? You'll just have to listen to find out! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Want to come to our Southampton Social on 27 January? Send us an email (bedhoppersuk@gmail.com) or DM us on X (https://twitter.com/bedhoppersUK)