bed hoppers - swinging in the UK

bh194: Ruby and Cole

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast!

In this episode we kick off a brand new series of interviews. We'll be chatting to guests about their journey, their thoughts on ethical non monogamy and the highs, lows and challenges that they've faced. This week we are joined by Ruby and Cole who share how they got started, talk about their dynamic and their tips on what to do if you get locked out of your room.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

 

Handy links

Find Ruby and Cole on Swinghub by searching 'RubyandCole'

Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

 

bh193: swinger NYE survival

In this episode we explore New Years Eve (NYE) and some of our previous experiences of the night. We talk about what to expect, how to survive and tackle some of our top tips. We touch on house parties, nights at clubs, managing expectations, what to wear and more. If you're thinking of doing a swinger club on NYE (be it your first club visit or your 100th) then this might just be the episode for you! 

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

 

bh192: in the sun and man down

In this episode we take time out to explore an article that featured in the Sun. We talk about some of the reactions from the community and how we feel about it. We also share a story where Mr H faces a challenging moment and isn't performing to his normal standards. What went wrong and what have we learned since then?

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Read the article we mention: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/31158998/gran-canaria-nude-beach-swinging-orgies-sex/

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh191: time for a question or two

In this episode we field some questions from our listeners and discord community. Questions include if we see ourselves in the lifestyle in 10 years time, would we ever leave, is there anything we'd change about our journey and who do we admire? We work out which celebs would be on our hall passes and if we've had any negative experiences that have had a lasting impact. It's a fun rambling exploration of our past, present and future. 

Thanks for hopping into our podcast!

 

Handy links

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

 

bh190: the masturbation station

In this edition of the bed hoppers podcast we talk about female masturbation and put Mrs H in the hot seat. We talk about when she started, how frequently and what it means to her. We both explore the OMGYES site and talk about our experience in trying it out. Mrs H attempts to talk us through some sexy times too.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

OMGYES: https://start.omgyes.com/join 

bh189: solo play for Mrs H

In this episode Mrs H goes on a solo date and has a sexy catch up with a lady friend. We talk about what she got up to (cue awks retelling of sexy times), what the experience was like and if she'd like to do it all again. Since it's us, not everything goes to plan - so we also talk about what went wrong and how we might do things differently. We talk about solo play in general and then a have a recording from some delightful friends covering their experiences in going Han-Solo. 

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

 

bh188: surprising challenges

In this episode we talk about some of the surprising challenges that folks might face whilst being in the swinging lifestyle. We know that things aren't always roses and rainbows, so we asked our community to send in things that shocked them once they had started swinging - and what really surprised them. From costs and cliques to reactions about bi guys and expectations around bi ladies - this one covers a whole bunch of surprising things!

Do let us know what has surprised you since you've started on your adventures. Stay tuned to the very end for a couple of clips from friends of the show too! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh187: party at Vanilla Alternative

In this episode we talk about our Neon Dreams event at Vanilla Alternative. We cover the behind the scenes gossip, the naughty times, the changes to VA and how it went for us. If you've ever wondered what a swingers takeover might be like, how VA has changed over the years or just want a nose about how our recent event went - then this is the episode for you. From lap dances and photography classes to pre-parties and walks of shame, there's something here for everyone!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

• Find out about Keri Gold here: https://www.instagram.com/keri_gold_/
• Find out about VA here: https://www.instagram.com/vanillaalternativeclub/
• Check out the Spicy Match Insta here: https://www.instagram.com/spicymatch_official/
• Email us bedhoppersuk@gmail.com to come along to our October social
• Check out our website: www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

bh186: how we started swinging

In this episode we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how our lifestyle journey began. We work through how we've changed in the eight or so years and also reflect on how the scene has changed in that time. If you've ever wondered how we got started or how things have changed in the lifestyle, then this might just be the episode for you.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

• Tickets to our NEON Dreams event are available here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/
• Email us bedhoppersuk@gmail.com to come along to our October social
• Check out our website: www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

bh185: how to rock a threesome

In this thrilling instalment we take a look at threesomes - and how we rock them (we can't actually back up that we rock them). We talk about some recent experiences, things to think about and how we've negotiated a FMF or two in the past. If you're thinking about sorting something similar, this could be just the pod for you. You might also enjoy it if you like us warbling on for a bit. This one has something for almost everyone. Prob'ly. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

 

Handy links

Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Join Spicy Match and find out about their other events here: https://www.spicymatch.com/

Want to come to our October Southampton Social? Message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh184: UK Swingers on Spicy Island

In this episode we talk about our adventure to Croatia and the Spicy Match Spicy Island. We run through what to expect, what the accommodation is like, the sort of people there, the playrooms, the food, the nights, our experiences and much, much more. From steampunk to sexy times - if you've never experienced a Spicy Match event - this is the episode for you. 

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Join Spicy Match and find out about their other events here: https://www.spicymatch.com/

Want to come to our October Southampton Social? Message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh183: a chat with our son

In this episode we put our son Morgan in the hot seat. We interview him about being the child (albeit now a grown adult) of swingers, what happened when he found out about our lifestyle, his thoughts on talking to your kids about it and what happened when we were off on adventures.

This one might be useful if you've ever thought about talking to your family about your swinging lifestyle - and understanding how your kids might react. Do get in touch if you have any questions - and thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Want to come to our October Southampton Social - message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh182: events, socials and a bi conversation

In this episode we explore what we've been up to over the last few weeks - from planning events, some lovely social meets and checking out the SSocial Club in Bournemouth. Then, since it's Pride month, we have a chat with Mrs H about her bisexuality - what it means to her and how she discovered that she was bi. 

Happy Pride everyone - and thanks for hopping into our podcast!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Want to come to our October Southampton Social - message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Find out about the SSocial Club here: https://www.instagram.com/the_ssocial_club/

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh181: solo dates for Mr and Mrs H

In this episode Mr and Mrs H both experience separate dates and solo play! On the same day! With the same person! Without completely spoiling this episode, we both have some adventures and talk about what went right, what could we have done better and how we might change things in future. From taking a swing to robots on the big screen, this one literally has it all. Oh - and it also has the conclusion to the sexy story we've been sharing. Miss that one at your peril!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh180: the greatest swinging podcast ever

In this thrilling instalment, we turn to our AI overlords to ask 'what would be the best ever swinging podcast?' We get some ideas and then jump straight online to record them! This one is like a mini-guide to swinging in 50 mins or so. Hopefully there's some fun to be had too! 

Oh - and if you liked our sexy story from last time, stick around to the end! There might be a treat just for you!

Thanks for hopping into our bed! 

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh179: an honest conversation

Welcome to the bed hopper podcast.

Over the past few months we've been talking about a shift in our dynamic. Mrs H is much more interested in women - but that's made making new connections much more complicated. So, we do what we do best and sit down and have an honest conversation about what's going on and how we might tackle it. We explore some options, talk about how we're feeling and think through our recent conversations with friends (check out the patreon for a special on that). And to top it off, there might just be a sexy story written by Mr H. 

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

 

bh178: PJ parties, socials and making the most of it

In this thrilling edition we talk about the Swinghub PJ party and find out why Mrs H had to hunt high and low for Mr H. We delve in to the Swindon Social - and touch on how we could get more from going to events and the like. We announce that we're going to SpicyIsland and talk about what that's gonna be like too.

Thanks for downloading our podcast!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

 

bh177: the black and white ball

In this episode we talk about the Black and White Ball, which we hosted with the Lovely Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. We go behind the scenes to talk about how the event went, run through what it's like being a host and also cover some of the sexy times we had during the weekend. Mrs H struggles to tell a sexy story and we delve into why that might be the case. 

Thanks for hopping into our podcast.

Handy links

Send Mrs H your phrase at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com 

Join our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk 

Check out Wanderlust Swingers here: https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder 

bh176: life updates, top tv and solo dates

In this episode we share an update on what's been going on in our lives lately. We talk about the support we've had from friends in the lifestyle and why things haven't been easy. But don't worry - it's not all doom and gloom - we quickly move onto some lifestyle adjacent TV (think Game of Keys and Couple to Throuple) and then ask Mrs H about what's happening with her solo date! 

Thanks for hopping into our podcast!

Handy links

Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk 

You can read about us in USA Today here: https://eu.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2024/03/07/swinging-emotions-sex-relationships/72675532007/

Find out about the SSocial Club here: https://www.instagram.com/the_ssocial_club/

 

bh175: lads, lads, lads

In this episode Mr H catches up with the marvellous Secret Stag for a chat about life, the universe and everything. From hotwifing and taking Secret vixen out on a date - all the way through to top tips for men - this one covers a wide range of random fun topics. Does Secret Stag enjoy the limelight? Will we be tempted by the one ring? How many pop culture references can we fit in one sitting? Find out all of this and more today!

Thanks for hopping in to our podcast!

Handy links

UPDATE: We have an extremely limited amount of club only tickets left for our Black and White Ball with the Wanderlust Swingers. Get yours here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

bh174: Mrs H goes one on one with Secret Stag

After taking time out to interview the lovely Secret Vixen in our last episode, Mrs H turns the tables on Secret Stag and interviews him one on one. They delve deeper into the world of hotwifing, cuckolding and stag and vixen dynamics. They explore just what makes Secret Stag tick and what drives his desires. If you've ever thought about being a stag (or cuck) this might just be the episode for you. 

Handy links

UPDATE: We have an extremely limited amount of club only tickets left for our Black and White Ball with the Wanderlust Swingers. Get yours here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

bh173: one on one with Secret Vixen

In this episode Mrs H goes solo with Secret Vixen for some one on one time and a great conversation. They explore the world of hot wives, what makes SV tick and what she's looking for in a hot date. Mr H and Secret Stag stay out of it for the benefit of all listeners! Download now for a fabulous convo with fabulous ladies. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

 

Handy links

Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

 

bh172: from red-lines to escalations

In this episode we take to X (or Twitter, for the old school) to get some listener questions. We cover a fair few topics including our hard red-lines, how to escalate and if we've ever lost friends in the lifestyle. Don't forget, if you'd like to send us a question, hit us up at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Links and stuff

Special thanks to the following for submitting a question on our live stream...

https://twitter.com/Elanjay_UK

https://twitter.com/MistressVixen77

https://twitter.com/jakrox23

https://twitter.com/funcouple512

https://twitter.com/newforestcouple

If we missed you off, sorry!

Don't forget, club tickets to our B&W event with Wanderlust Swingers are still on sale. Head here to grab yours now: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

bh171: glory holes and trouser holes - NYE at Xstasia

Hoppy new year! We hope you had a great one and have started the year with a bang!

This episode is all about our New Years Eve trip to Xstasia (near Birmingham). We cover what it's like returning to the club (we were last there pre-pandemic), some of the amusing stories and a little bit of the sexy times that we had on the night. We also talk about Mr H's birthday (thanks for all of the well wishes) and some of the drama we've been dealing with since the end of December. It's a fun filled episode that we hope we keep those January blues well away! 

Thanks for hopping into our bed! 

 

Handy links

FYI - our Southampton Social for January is now sold out - as are hotel tickets for the B&W Ball with Wanderlust Swingers.

Get club only tickets to the B&W Ball here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Check out our website here: www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

Find out more about Xstasia here: https://www.xtasia.co.uk/ 

bh170: a solo play date

In this episode we follow up on our chat about separate dating - and Mr H goes on a solo play adventure. We talk about how this came about, what happened, how we're feeling and what it might mean for the future. Mrs H reveals what she got up to - and Mr H gives the deets of his sexy story. Would we do it again? You'll just have to listen to find out! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Want to come to our Southampton Social on 27 January? Send us an email (bedhoppersuk@gmail.com) or DM us on X (https://twitter.com/bedhoppersUK) 

bh169: the great big UK hotel takeover

This episode is part two (of a two part podcast). The first one is on the Wanderlust Swingers show (https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder) and is called UK Swingers Hotel Takeover. We chill out with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers and talk about the Winter Wonderland event - our joint event which was the largest swinging hotel takeover that's ever happened in the UK (what a mouthful). We go behind the scenes, talk about our highlights, some of the feedback and how it all went down. Find out more about the room crawl, action on the buses and why we went to bed so late.

We talk a little bit about our next event and also announce our bed hoppers social in January.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Important info

Want to come to our social event on 27 January 2024? Drop us a message and we'll send you the deets as soon as they are available.

 

bh168: a big discussion on dynamics

Thanks for downloading our podcast.

We take time out to follow up on a discussion we'd started in Miami. For some context, in Florida Mrs H missed out on the opportunity to play with some ladies/one particular lady. This, linked in with some observed changes to our approach, has prompted some discussion about separate play. So, we lay it all out on the table and talk about why this might be a thing, how we're feeling about it and what it could change for our relationship.

Hope you find it a useful discussion. 

We'd love to hear your thoughts and if you've tackled a similar topic. If so, reach out to us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or at https://twitter.com/bedhoppersUK

bh167: the Miami PCAP recap

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about our recent adventure to Florida and how Miami Podcast-A-Palooza (PCAP) went for us. We cover what it was like at the event, what we got up to and our thoughts on returning. There's some theme park talk and a little bit of naughty too - something for everyone! 

Handy links

Find out more about about PCAP and other Libertine events here: https://libertineevents.com/

bh166: SwingHub and Open House with Olivia and Gage

In this episode we speak to the lovely Olivia and Gage about Swinghub (their new lifestyle dating app), appearances on TV (including Open House) and also explore how they met and what they do with their spare time! We have some fun along the way, chat about our shared TV experiences and find out much more about them too! 

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about SwingHub:

• https://www.swinghub.com/
• https://twitter.com/SwingHub

Check out Vistawife:

• https://www.instagram.com/vista_wife/
• https://twitter.com/Vista_Wife 

And Gage:

• https://www.instagram.com/magicgage/
• https://twitter.com/GageVista

 

bh165: the pre event conversation

In this episode we have a chat about some upcoming events and talk through our approach. What are our expectations, some of our rules and boundaries - and how are we going to make the best of our experience. Take a listen to find out how we prep for events - and have some honest conversations about how we think it might go! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

 

Handy links

Come to our Winter Wonderland event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

 

bh164: Swindon Swingers Club

In this episode we have a quick catch-up on Mrs H's birthday and then dive right in to the topic of the day - our visit to Swindon Swingers Club. We give you the basics on how it works, what it's like and try to remember the layout off the top of our heads. It's a handy guide if you're planning to visit for the first time! We also cover a little bit about how we're feeling when visiting clubs and how we're a little out of practice.

Special thanks to the Swindon team for being so welcoming. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Check out Swindon Swingers Club here: https://swindonswingers.com/

Grab your tickets to our Winter Wonderland event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

 

bh163: masturbation and eye opening moments

Thanks for downloading our show! In this episode we answer some listener questions - from making a great first impression and recovering from an illness - all the way through to an exploration of masturbation (thanks for that one, Mrs H!). We also announce our brand new event (Winter Wonderland) that we're hosting with the amazing Wanderlust Swingers. We offer an update on our home lives and talk a little about what's to come! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

 

Come to our Winter Wonderland event

Get ready for the most amazing event of the year... The UK's FIRST EVER Full Swingers Hotel Takeover is here!

Mark your calendars for November 18th, because it's going to be an unforgettable night of excitement and adventure. Hosted by Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and the bed hoppers Podcast, this event promises to be an epic journey into the world of pleasure and connection.

What can you expect?

Meet and Mingle Floor Crawl: Mix and mingle with like-minded individuals as you explore every corner of the hotel. Make new friends, connect with old ones, and start your evening off on the right foot.

Pre-party Extravaganza: Get the party started early with a pre-party that will set the mood for an unforgettable night. Music, drinks, and electrifying energy await you.

Party Bus Adventure: Buckle up for an exciting ride as the party bus takes you to the Swingers Club Takeover.

Swingers Club Takeover: The grand finale! Dive headfirst into a world of sensuality, pleasure, and passion as you take over the swingers club for a night of unforgettable experiences at Penthouse Playrooms.

Tickets are available NOW: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

 

bh162: lose yourself in the moment

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about some of the sexy times we had on our Going Dutch adventure. From six in a tiny room to a show for two - this one has it all. We cover the naughty times but also deep dive into a something of a hiccup on the Sunday afternoon. We talk about losing yourself in the moment and how much you give to your play partners - and we wonder how much hanger plays into our play experience.

Get in touch and tell us about how you handle losing yourself in the moment: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/social-media 

Handy links

People mentioned in this episode include...

• https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1
• https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag
• https://twitter.com/maxandmabel1
• https://twitter.com/fresh84_ec
• https://twitter.com/fresh84sc
• https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder

 

bh161: Fata Morgana and Fun4Two

Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about our Going Dutch event with the Wanderlust Swingers. We cover the basics on the trip and explore the two clubs that we visited - Fata Morgana and Fun4Two. We compare the two and reveal our favourite - handy if you're heading to Amsterdam and the like. Do get in touch if you've been to either club or have some other recommendations. 

Handy links

Our site - https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Fun4Two - https://fun4two.nl/english/index.html

Fata Morgana - https://www.fata-morgana.nl/prijzen-tijden/

Wanderlust Swingers - https://www.swingingdownunder.com/

 

bh160: the hot summer nights event

Thanks for taking a look at our podcast. In this episode we talk about our Hot Summer Nights event at Penthouse Playrooms (co-hosted with the Wanderlust Swingers) and how it went for us and for special guests HiscockHertail (LV and VI). We cover what's been going on at home and the lead up to the event - along with a few spicy details about the night. 

 

Special thanks go to...

• Cate and Darrell for co-hosting with us and helping to make the event extra awesome
• Penthouse Playrooms for having such a lovely venue and letting us return
• Secret Stag, Secret Vixen and Max and Mabel for their support on the night (and all other times!)
• LV and VI (HiscockHertail) for coming on the show and for being as awesome as ever
• Everyone else who came along to the event and supported us!

Handy links

Find out more about...

• LV and VI - https://twitter.com/HisCockHerTail
• Cate and Darrell - https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
• Max and Mabel - https://twitter.com/maxandmabel1
• Secret Stag - https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag
• Secret Vixen - https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1 and https://secretvixen.blog/
• Penthouse Playrooms - https://www.penthouseplayrooms.com/

bh159: our top three UK swingers clubs

Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we answer popular listener question - what are our favourite clubs in the UK? So, we talk about our top three and explore just why we'd recommend them, the good, the bad and the ugly. Well, mostly the good - we're pretty positive. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

 

Handy links

The Vanilla Alternative: https://va2.co.uk/

Le Boudoir: https://leboudoir.club/sessions/new

Penthouse Playrooms: https://www.penthouseplayrooms.com/

bh158: our worst experience

Thanks for picking our podcast! In this episode we talk about our worst experience ever. We delve into some of the meets that have gone wrong and then into a situation that we'd never want to repeat. We explore a weekend break from several years back that we've never discussed on the podcast before. Trigger warning - it includes a hospital trip and a seizure - so please keep that in mind as you listen.

Handy links

Come to our Hot Summer Night event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

 

bh157: a slutty weekend

Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about a rather exciting weekend. From bottomless drinks and hosting friends all the way through to our social event and a very sexy threesome. Sounds like a great weekend to us. Secret kisses and sleepy hand jobs too! We also talk about attending a rather lovely social event in Oxford. Apologies in advance for Mr H's voice - I'm sorry, I have a cold! 

Handy links

Join our Hot Summer Nights event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Follow these folks to find out more about the Oxford social...

• @Poprocks_4_Coke
• @TigerooStripe
• @Elanjay_UK

 

bh156: questions for your lover

Thanks for downloading our podcast. This one is a chat between us - we decided to ask each other some questions that we think everyone might benefit from. So, consider this a lifestyle and relationship check-in. The questions are...

1. Why are we doing this?

2. Are we having fun?

3. What does the future look like?

4. How are we staying connected?

5. Is there anything you'd like to tell me?

We run through the questions and come up with some (perhaps) surprising answers. Hope you enjoy it - do let us know how you get on if you decide to ask and answer the questions too!

Handy links

Come to our Hot Summer Nights event - https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Come along to our Going Dutch event - https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/

 

bh155: just the twoofus

Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we interview great friends the Twoofus (or the Twoofers) - and find out more about how they came to join the lifestyle, their favourite clubs and who they'd have over for tea. There's some fun along the way with favourite sandwiches and who'd play us and them in our own film. 

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out more about the Twoofus here: https://twitter.com/Thetwoofus2019

Join our Going Dutch event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/

And come to our Hot Summer Nights event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

 

bh154: busting makes us feel good

In this episode we tackle some of the great swinger myths - where they might come from, if any of them are actually true and which are just urban legends.  Mrs H pulls together a list of her favourites and tests Mr H on the fact or fiction. A fun little adventure through some of those crazy things we've heard in the swinging lifestyle. Thanks for hopping into our show!

Handy Links

Hot Summer Nights event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Going Dutch event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/

 

bh153: a matter of guilt

In this episode we invite fabulous friends Secret Vixen and Secret Stag on for a discussion on guilt. We cover feeling guilty as parents, carers and friends as we take time out to explore our sexuality and the swinging and hot-wifing lifestyles. If you've ever felt bad for dropping your friends, leaving your kids with the grand-parents or having your own life - this might just be the topic for you. 

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Handy links

Our guests

• Secret Vixen on Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1
• Secret Stag on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag
• The Secret Vixen blog: https://secretvixen.blog/
• The Secret Stag blog: https://secretvixen.blog/secret-stag/

Our events

• Going Dutch event:  https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/
• Hot Summer Night event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

 

bh152: bed hoppers on TV

Did you know that we were on TV again? In the UK we were on 5Star (a Channel 5 thing) on a show called Adults Only - swingers wanted. At the time of publishing, it's still available on catch up. We talk about filming, what on earth made us do TV again and what we thought about the programme. We compare it to our previous effort on television and work through what worked well and what wasn't for us. We also talk about some of the great events we've got coming up!

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Handy links

Going Dutch event - https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/ 

Hot Summer Nights - https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

The Channel 4 TV show (the previous one) - https://youtu.be/Tmedrw-i8_c 

bh151: some random questions

We delve into some random listener questions - from the ultimate Batman to perfecting your profile. Should you sh1t on your own doorstep and how long have we been name and face out? There's some serious discussion and some fun to be had too. Also - look out for the slightly new intro!

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Handy links

Want to come to our Going Dutch event? 

Head here to get tickets and find out more: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/

 

bh150: the RED HOT Party and a look back at our favourites

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In this episode we take a look at our recent Red Hot Party (hosted with the delightful Wanderlust Swingers). We talk event prep, how it went on the night and how Mr H has been feeling reflecting back on it.

And, since it's our 150th episode, we also take a stroll through memory lane and recall some of our favourite bed hopper episodes - and why they mean so much to us.

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Handy links

People mentioned in this episode, include...

https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder

https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

https://twitter.com/maxandmabel1

https://twitter.com/UkBehind

https://twitter.com/HisCockHerTail

https://twitter.com/MsClitbang

And here’s a link to the YouTube walkthrough of Penthouse Playrooms - https://youtu.be/VwzDpAAn4mc

Find out more about them at https://www.penthouseplayrooms.com 

 

bh149: surviving events

In this episode the delightful Cate from Wanderlust Swingers Podcast joins us - and we talk about making the most of events. We cover our top tips for a successful event, some of the dos and don'ts and how to get the best errr bang for your buck. Cate's experience in running events comes in really handy - as does our ability to get it wrong!

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Want to find out more about Cate?

Head to their site at https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ 

 

More of us?

Check out our website at www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk 

bh148: a couple of naughty weekends

Thanks for checking out our show. In this episode we talk about a couple of naughty weekends and what we got up to. For the first, we stay away to see some amazing folks and, for the second, we have some delightful guests stay the night. We talk about some sexy times, cover some interesting questions that get raised as result and have some fun along the way. 

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Handy links

People in this episode include...

https://twitter.com/starlordandpen

https://twitter.com/sluttypants_

https://twitter.com/_MrSluttyPants\

Check out our website at www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk 

bh147: we didn’t expect that!

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In this episode we talk about some of the stuff we didn't expect when we entered the swinging lifestyle. We reflect on the good stuff and take a walk through the not-so-good stuff too. From increasing costs to fabulous friends and more - it's a fun reflection on some of the more surprising things we've discovered.

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Handy links

Become a member of our Patreon - www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk  

Visit our website - www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

bh146: Fun4two and the New Year tantric tent

In this episode we fly out to a club in Rotterdam (Fun4two) and give you a low down on if it's hot or not. We explore the rooms, restaurant and what it's like partying on NYE! We hang round with delightful friends Cate and Darrell from the Wanderlust Swingers - and talk about how we saw the New Year in with a bang! From tantric tents to full body massage, this one has it all...

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Want to find out more about Cate and Darrell?

Head to their site at https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ 

 

Want to check out Fun4two?

Here’s a handy link: https://fun4two.nl/ 

 

Come along to our event at Penthouse Playrooms on 25 February 2023

We’re hosting an event with the delightful Wanderlust Swingers. Get your tickets here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh145: our end of year review

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This time around we take time out to reflect on 2022 and have a think about what we're looking forward to in 2023. We walk through some of our highlights, what's on our fucket list for the new year and what we're planning!

 

Come along to our event at Penthouse Playrooms on 25 February 2023

We’re hosting an event with the delightful Wanderlust Swingers. Get your tickets here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Thanks for hopping into our bed!